Help we can't decide is she male or female?

LOL yes we are having problems determining if the 8/9 week old kitten is male or female. We kinda think female. But dang if we can tell. So far no one can tell. So how do you tell? I swear in the past with kittens we've had it was much easier to tell. With Sassy, well it's harder.

My mom has had all kinds of adventures with this kitten. I'll have to see if I can get her to post and share them here.

hugs,
WendyK